Do you want Success in Love? Is your jealousy of the ex girlfriend/boyfriend of your beloved driving you apart?
Do you have issues dealing with your beloved’s ex? Do you find yourself completely irrational when it comes to his/her ex? Do you find yourself sulking about it and even fighting about it and spoiling the romantic and loving mood? Are you finding that the past is poisoning your present time with your loved one? Then read on, this article will interest you.
Here is the scenario:
Jane has met Jack and they are in love. They both have had past relationships so they are taking it easy, taking time to discover each other. Both Jane and Jack have learnt lessons of compromise from their past relationships and both are focused on making this relationship work. But… every time Jane is reminded of Jack’s ex, whether it is through a conversation or a picture or whatever else, she goes into a green jealous rage and cannot control herself but have an explosive argument about it with Jack. Jack, on the other hand, does not even want to think about Jane’s previous relationships. As far as he is concerned, even Jane’s current friends from the male gender rivals or enemies of his. So he gives her a tough time each time she receives a text or a call from one of her male friends. Never mind that they have been friends for many years since school and there is no reason to stop that friendship now. Let not Jane even think about meeting any of them for a catch up and chat. Sacrilege, she is being unfaithful. The story goes in a similar way with regards Jane’s views of Jack’s female friends.
So how do you stop this behaviour from boycotting your loving relationship? Can you find any personal similarities in the above story? If yes, I urge you to read on because help is at bay. I do not have any magical wand to make all your beloved friends and ex’s go away. But I do have some FREE magical gems to give you that will empower you to experience a loving, fulfilling and trusting relationship with your beloved.
Control your mind and do not let your mind control you. What you focus on grows in proportion. Beware what the thoughts you let your mind loose on.
Live in the now. What can the past do for you right now except provided you with more experience! So leave the past where it belongs.
Gratitude, gratitude and more gratitude. Are you not grateful that right now you are with our beloved and that he/she is here and loving you? So think it, say it and show it.
What you fear most or want most will manifest because you attract it to you through your thoughts.
Thoughts become things!! So mind what your thoughts are creating because these will manifest in your life in one form or another
Can you see a theme in the above points? Thoughts, thoughts and mind!! They can change your whole physiognomy into happiness and joy or they can change it to anxiety, fear and jealousy – You choose!!
So what can you do to change that pattern? There are more tips and advices at www.atozsuccess.com. You will find a FREE article to provide you with invaluable answers.
To Your Success In Love
Marie-Anne
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